Gifts for military spouses

Gifts for the military spouse who holds everything together

Send one gift they can spend on self-care, coffee, a good book, or a well-deserved night off. No fees. Never expires.
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Recognizing the Strength at Home

Military spouses are some of the most resilient people you'll ever meet. They manage households through deployments, start over in new cities, and keep life steady for their kids and partners. Military Spouse Appreciation Day comes in May, but November's Military Family Appreciation Month is another great time to thank them. A thoughtful gift lets them know their hard work hasn't gone unnoticed. With On Me, you choose a category that helps them recharge, add a heartfelt note, and they pick exactly what they need. It's a gift that says you see them.

Maybe they'd love a quiet self-care afternoon, a stack of new books, or a coffee that someone else made for once. On Me gifts arrive by text, email, or a shareable link in minutes. They're easy to send to a friend at another duty station or a neighbor down the street. And because they never expire, they can save it for the moment they need it most.

Military spouse guide
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Self-care

CVS

Sephora

GNC

+68 more

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Illy

Breville

Keurig

+84 more

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Better World Books

Audible

Book of the Month

+69 more

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CVS

Sephora

e.l.f.

+72 more

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lululemon

Under Armour

Alo Yoga

+62 more

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Momofuku

Gordon Ramsay North America

Hello Fresh

+92 more

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Shein

Uniqlo

Marshalls

+81 more

Gifts to help them recharge

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A Little Time Just for Them

Military spouses spend so much time taking care of everyone else. A Self-Care On Me card gives them permission to focus on themselves for a change. They can book a fitness class, pick up a favorite skincare product, or plan a relaxing night in. It works at wellness brands like Aesop, Alo Yoga, and Bath & Body Works. Add a note telling them how much you admire their strength. They'll feel appreciated in the best way.

Testimonials

Loved by people everywhere

“Fantastic option for thoughtful gifts without the pressure of locking someone into something that they feel obligated to keep/use even if they don't like it.”

Grant King

Grant King

“Works great to send a little pick me up to college kids when you never quite know how they will spend it, but know what things they like. Has been seamless. Thanks!”

CL

Chris Lagerbloom

“On Me is my lifesaver when it comes to gifting friends and families — so many places and types of cards to choose from.”

AH

Alaweyah Habhab

“Whether family gifting or corporate gifting, your people will love you for sending this gift.”

Gretchen

Gretchen

“Great concept and so easy to gift! Also has a great list of vendors available.”

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Amelia Palmer

“I just think this was the best idea anyone has had in forever. I've been giving gift cards for Christmas for years & it's always a struggle to get the right one for everybody. On Me solved my dilemma & I can order from them every year. And everyone is happy, especially me!”

CN

Carolyn Nickolauson

“I love it! I've always wanted to gift people I love, but I haven't been able to hit the sweet spot of finding "exactly what would spark joy". As soon as I learnt about it, I tried it for my partner and my sister.”

Ranganath Narayan

Ranganath Narayan

“I love this, adding quick video messages makes a huge difference. It's a gift card I know my friends will actually use!”

KQ

Katyanna Quach

“As a senior retiree, my thumbs don't go at Mach 1, and I don't always find apps easy to use. But I found this one very intuitive. Choosing a category like hiking makes me feel like I at least put a little effort into knowing what types of gift the recipient would want.”

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Rick

“As someone who lives out of state from friends and family, On Me has been a great tool for making sure I don't miss the opportunity to make my loved ones feel special for birthdays and other celebrations. Love this service!”

Ashley Massa

Ashley Massa

“Fantastic option for thoughtful gifts without the pressure of locking someone into something that they feel obligated to keep/use even if they don't like it.”

Grant King

Grant King

“Works great to send a little pick me up to college kids when you never quite know how they will spend it, but know what things they like. Has been seamless. Thanks!”

CL

Chris Lagerbloom

“On Me is my lifesaver when it comes to gifting friends and families — so many places and types of cards to choose from.”

AH

Alaweyah Habhab

“Whether family gifting or corporate gifting, your people will love you for sending this gift.”

Gretchen

Gretchen

“Great concept and so easy to gift! Also has a great list of vendors available.”

AP

Amelia Palmer

“I just think this was the best idea anyone has had in forever. I've been giving gift cards for Christmas for years & it's always a struggle to get the right one for everybody. On Me solved my dilemma & I can order from them every year. And everyone is happy, especially me!”

CN

Carolyn Nickolauson

“I love it! I've always wanted to gift people I love, but I haven't been able to hit the sweet spot of finding "exactly what would spark joy". As soon as I learnt about it, I tried it for my partner and my sister.”

Ranganath Narayan

Ranganath Narayan

“I love this, adding quick video messages makes a huge difference. It's a gift card I know my friends will actually use!”

KQ

Katyanna Quach

“As a senior retiree, my thumbs don't go at Mach 1, and I don't always find apps easy to use. But I found this one very intuitive. Choosing a category like hiking makes me feel like I at least put a little effort into knowing what types of gift the recipient would want.”

R

Rick

“As someone who lives out of state from friends and family, On Me has been a great tool for making sure I don't miss the opportunity to make my loved ones feel special for birthdays and other celebrations. Love this service!”

Ashley Massa

Ashley Massa

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How it works

Make it personal

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Send it now or later

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Receive thank you notes

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Seamless spending, however they shop

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FAQ

Something that helps them recharge, like self-care, coffee, a good book, or a night out. With On Me, you choose the category and they pick the details.

It's celebrated in May, but November's Military Family Appreciation Month is another great time to show your thanks.

Yes. On Me gifts are delivered by email, text, or a shareable Gift Link, so you can send them wherever they are.

No. On Me gifts never expire and have no fees.